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Sokka, trying to be more friendly to Zuko after becoming Aang’s firebending teacher: relax, guy, I like gay men
Zuko, sweating profusely: that’s nice but…I’m not gay
Sokka, who has been daydreaming about kissing him, KNOWING his fantasies were based off of some fact: [squinting] I don’t believe that
#memes#avatar#avatar the last airbender#atla#sokka#zuko#zukka#zukka memes#I just love this audio it’s so funny#relax I like gay men#Zuko aka mr gay gayman the gay man#im not gay#NO ONE IS GOING TO BELIEVE THAT ZUKO#I like to think that Sokka has like#cringey middle school anime drawings of him and Zuko kissing#he doodles in the middle of aangs bending lessons#in between hassling Zuko and being a general nuisance#he needs his hobbies#and I support them 100%
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Like, he's not exactly someone who always wanted to wear pink blush and Dorothy dresses; he just likes doing whatever garners him attention and gives him the appearance of a rockstar.
And this goes out to all those fans who believe he's secretly transfemme as well. I can't explain it, but this is what a man who loves being a man looks like:
Harry has all these bold, ugly, expensive, "quirky" outfits but nothing behind them, no great art, or wit, or intelligence, or musical genius, so his outfits look extra ridiculous. Plus he never speaks out on anything and stays quiet as a church mouse. Somebody tell the clown to just wear jeans and t-shirts. He'd look a whole lot better and not be such a laughingstock.
That's the thing. He does wear jeans and t-shirts as his personal style. That's why everything else looks ridiculous on him. He's just a mannequin for someone else's vision.
#harry styles#harry snark#a lot of men find it sexually thrilling to wear feminine clothes and that's the feeling i get from harry#gay men generally love being men#yes even the “hyperfeminine” ones
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sometimes i think about how wild a mw2 movie would be if they just dropped soapghost right in the middle with no warning or marketing. like imagine it being beat for beat the exact same, it’s your typical military action movie, promoted as just another military action movie then after they get to the safe house, ghost has to patch up soap and he’s still out of it, overwhelmed by the betrayal and everything he’s seen and ghost needs to ground him and keep him in the present, to remind him that he’s alive and safe so he kisses him and they have sex. the tantrums and the rants and the “ReAl sOLdiErS aRen’t liKe ThAt”, god i can taste it and it’s delicious
#theres never any talk of a relationship or sexuality crisis its just this moment of humanity and comfort to bring soap back to himself#real any time you need me by thirteenbullets vibes#theyre not the type of men to have something as normal as a relationship#theyre just everything to each other they know that and its enough#ghost can be such a complex character if you let him#this guy whos rejected his humanity has buried himself and become a ghost#willingly digging himself out of the grave to stop soap from digging his own#like how are there not more explicitly homoerotic military movies that actually pull the trigger (heh) on the homo part of the eroticism#you know how if movies have even a hint of queerness they wring it out for every drop of respresentation they can get#theres a hundred articles and its mentioned in every interview and it all journalists ask those actors#imagine it being a complete secret and everyone expects just a typical action movie#then boom battle buddy gay sex#like if it were a male and fenale character you would see that scene coming a mile away so why cant it happen with two guys#just doing it is the only way of normalising it#i still see men saying they act like brothers which is denial so strong even egypt is impressed#but imagine the general public expecting this manly man military movie then getting hit with the alone mission flirting and denying it#then getting smacked in the face with tender wound care and grounding love making initiated by the edgelord they were using as a self inser#coming out of my cage and ive been doing just fine.txt#soapghost#ghostsoap#ghoap#john soap mactavish#soap cod#simon ghost riley#ghost cod#cod mw2#we’re a team. ghost team
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I need some of you to stop trying to find homosexual romances in straight media and actually sit down and start supporting the LGBTQ+ media that’s already out there.
#Liz speaks#Liz rants#as a member of the lgbtq+ community not everything is gay#men can be affectionate with each other without it being gay#I think it’s a very inherently American worldview to think otherwise#men can and should be affectionate with each other without it being romantic in intent#ship what you want but stop asserting that it’s canon#because it’s not#and again#go support relationships in media or media in general that has explicitly queer themes#so we can have more queer media#why is this so hard?#anyway#I thought the chicken was lovely
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People need to get weirder about dwarves
#this post is about#deep rock galactic#i wish people talked about drg like they do ultrakill SO BAD#so so bad#please be weird and gay about the dwarves#these guys are gay as hell just like pirates#even the hypothetical women#which btw i think female dwarves also have beards. i do not think dwarves have any of the same gendernorms as humans#and thats beautiful#both r beefy and can kill#i think hair types and shit are the O_O attractive type stuff#like length too#i think men decorate their beards more in a grooming display to woo others#peacock behavior /j#sorry i cant get out of my head women being the bigger n stronger (sterotypically) of the generic sexes for dwarves#its so funny#i also want to bring up my favorite thing ever which is shipping the robots#i think doretta and bet-c kiss#molly is their love child and the mini mules are mollys children#also bosco and lyoid are cousins#oakdrawss#text post#thank you#goodnight
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Now that I've finished dungeon meshi I have to say, while I understand the disappointment with fandom's constant obsession with shipping two dudes in fandom typical ways and ignoring the women/men that don't fit a certain mold and basically ignoring the entire rest of the story...
People acting so indignant that people would do gay or even straight shipping, because this manga is such a super women-led yuri show that's all about the power of Marcille's all-consuming love for Falin, are absolutely fucking bonkers and have lost the plot.
That is not to say that these shippers are not insane or can't be annoying in the typical ways that they are, or that Marcille/Falin aren't the most shippable pairing and just about the closest you're gonna get to something romantic in Dungeon Meshi (it's a platonic ass story and I love that), or that it wouldn't be nice for the fandom around something to stay mostly devoted to the closest to a canon pairing most shippable F/F ship. It would. But like. I don't know I'm kind of upset by that attitude now
And my intention is not to be super negative about Marcille/Falin fans, because they are certainly not all like this, it's just. WHOO! That is just so not remotely what Dungeon Meshi is about to a degree I still wasn't prepared for despite being aptly warned.
#dungeon meshi tag#like this isn't a case where you'd have to shove every female character out the way to do your gay shipping exactly.#Again. I would not call these men very shippable with each other. And I would never tell anyone not to bitch and be snobby.#Bitch and be snobby always!#I'm just saying this attitude more than anything else is what gave me a different impression of what the show would be like#and the refusal to engage with a work for what it is is one of the annoying things about fandom shipping culture#like I wasn't expecting the relationship between Marcille and Falin to be SO understated. I wasn't expecting the bathroom hands#to basically be *it* with Marcille and Falin's interactions. Like there's just so little between them. Falin is barely in it.#And being super indignant that people would dare to ship Marcille with what the story clearly acts like is basically boy Falin#a character she actually spends the entire manga with and has a developed relationship with and that she clearly loves#(I think in general there are a few too many posts to my liking that toe a line towards 'gay shipping icky' for my tastes. But I get it)#I don't think I've been this gaybaited by something on tumblr for close to a decade which is also part of what's grinding my gears
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for pride ask thing! <3
Answers below the cut!
28) Do you experience both romantic and sexual attraction? Do you experience them the same across any gender(s) you are attracted to?
Yes, I think so? I identify as pansexual, everyone is hot all of the time lol. I think attraction to each individual person feels different, though. I am a constant case of someone who is in love with their friends. Tbh to me I don't feel a real separation between romantic or sexual or platonic attraction, what makes the most sense to me is that there are people I feel affectionate towards, and usually that just feels like a bundle of all of the above!
33) What about your LGBT identity do you feel proud of/want to recognize/celebrate?
gender queerness/gender non-conformity! The community we built here and the people I've met through this work really REALLY altered my relationship with my body and gender presentation. I've always been very attracted to gender nonconformity but it can be hard/scary to perform in a very cishet society. Getting to know all of you and having a very free environment for bodies of all kinds really gave me the confidence to dress how I want in public, and to get more comfy with the overlapping and layered labels I may use.
34) What are you needing most right now (what would make your life easier or more fulfilling in regards to existing as queer)?
Community with other trans folks. I'm in Texas and I've been trying to leave my entire life. I've encountered so few other trans people that I can have casual hangouts with or talk about day to day life with, or even have intimate relationships with. The closest I get to meeting other trans people in person tends to be driving hours to attend a queer event a couple times a year. It's been a big struggle for me this past year.
#ask#not art#lore#also im demisexual i guess???? as ive been learning#i think my attraction skews towards women but it might be bc more women take the time to build friendships with me than men#i love that the community weve built here is just like a celebration of all kinds of bodies and body parts#throw a pussy on that guy whatever#trans their genders#i feel like this is such a queer ambiguous space that i genuinely forget the binary exists out there lmao#and then i go to work and get she/her bc my hair goes to my shoulders and im like HUH????#mmmm yeah texas mixed feelilngs on that one#i know theres queer people here and i want to be in community with them but alsooooooooo we're so spread out and id love to be in a place w#where my gender is understood by coworkers or general friends i end up in proximity with or where meeting other trans people didnt feel lik#finding a unicorn or something#i dont like the feeling of being the only queer person in a room#or the only events near me being catered to cis gay men aughhh#marco lore
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I fucking HATE how the fandom treats m.ine. it's so bad 😭
#ash rambles 💚#so many shitty takes... too much time on twitter ruins a man#i hear one more person call him a crazy obsessive yandere and i think I'm actually gonna lose it#he's either portrayed like that or as one half of a ship#his actual character is lost on so many people because oOoOOoOOooOoO mInE wAs GaY#i dont doubt that he likes men. it's just that I've seen so many people be weird about it-#also. it's not fucking sexy to wanna kill your partner. a bullet between the eyes isn't an act of love.#I saw a tweet today about how m.ine actually wanted to kill k.iryu because he thought d.aigo liked k.iryu romantically#and m.ine only wants d.aigo to himself. and THAT'S why m.ine wanted to kill k.iryu.#let that sink in. 😐.#i hate how the fandom treats him SO MUCH#i will sit in my corner here. and i will kiss m#m.ine. and we will kiss a lot. and things are good. we are happy. we are far away from all of that.#I'm not saying every fan of his is horrible. I've seen a lot of great stuff and content! but holy shit I've seen some horrible stuff too#and it's hard to not feel like I'm doing something wrong by shipping with him. by loving a guy who the world has always hated.#and ofc I'm not! but still! even whenever i rb content of him here I'm always so afraid ajdhajsj#like ah yes this is the day i finally get cancelled on tumblr dot com for (checks notes) ... shipping with y.oshitaka m.ine??#I'm honestly afraid to take him up to being an official f/o ajdhajsb i think he'll stay in crush jail a little while longer..#i hate how the fandom perceives him so much!!!!!!! i also just hate the y.akuza fandom in general lmao#i do also like k.iryu so.. I've seen shit 😐#I'll delete this later but oh boy i am in a mood#and i know this isnt the first time I've blogged about this#and for that i do apologize. but i really do love this guy and despite wanting to look for content of him i always end up finding the most#infuriating shit!#i know he's done fucked up things. he's not a great guy. but! our relationship is built on mutual trust and i will NEVER write any of that#creepy obsessive shit that the stupid fandom always portrays him as doing! he's not going to kill someone for getting too close to me-#I'm just... upset- get behind me honey! I'll shield you!#and by kissing him I'm not brushing over any of the shit he does in the game. yes he beheaded that guy. yeah he slapped that orphan.#but i adore him and omg i hit tag limit... oopsie daisy lol sorry guys 😭 I'm really sorry for always talking abt this#you were beautiful 💸
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by all what is given (and likely intended, but who knows?), they are both straight, but you can make a few assumptions re: tommy's relationship with freddie (and to a lesser degree with alfie) where the issue at hand is less about being troubled over a possible attraction to men, but a lack of trust/fraught history/betrayals/... (nevertheless persistent sexual and/or romantic attraction) while arthur doesn't have equivalent relationships to other men (unless you wonder what he's been up to with billy grade, but ... different can of worms), but is kind of the platonic ideal of a closeted gay narrative.
tricky!, but i think there's a solution to this ...
#no but seriously arthur has a latent suppressed attraction 2 men makes sense insofar as that his self/ideal self/wants/desires are so#fractured and cause him great deal of distress over not knowing what he wants or how to articulate it#it's ripe with it. nevertheless#there are no good gay arthur takes in this fandom though they are all boring and like to ignore things like him being attracted to women#and the domestic violence and what not#though i maintain that arthur's suicide letter was also a love confession so maybe the closeted vibes have less to do with an attraction to#men generally and more to his brother
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i really want to start making a table collecting statistics on the audience demographics i'll perform my aubrey material for (like what generation most of the audience is, whether i'm performing in a predominantly queer space, etc.) and how well the jokes land bc like. i need to collect more data points before i can properly present my findings but the results so far have been fascinating
#again i do not have enough performance experiences to make any definitive claims about who ''aubery's audience'' is#but i find it funny that any time i show my aubrey material one-on-one to a queer gen z person#they're always like ''i love it but straight people will definitely hate it or not get it''#and i get the inclination to be like. ''i like this thing so people like me will like this thing''#and cishet society seems so polarized w/r/t queer topics it's like. the assumption makes sense#however. whenever i've done an aubrey performance in front of an audience that's predominantly queer and gen z#i've actually received a primarily negative response!! and somehow straight people have never given me shit for my aubrey material#(''well straight allys don't count'' i told some of my aubrey jokes to a joe rogan dudebro and he enjoyed them)#(which yeah maybe could be a mark against my comedy but i like to think i opened his mind a bit at the very least)#i really want to test my aubrey monologues in front of a primarily gen x/boomer audience#bc so far i only have actual performance experience in front of gen z or millennials#and the older people i've told jokes to individually or shown videos of my stuff have really liked it#luckily paul has said a goal for when i'm in town this summer is to get me to perform my aubrey stuff in as many different places as possib#for both queer audiences and non-queer audiences so i can gauge reactions since i don't want to be confined to one demographic#so i'll get a lot of data points this summer#@ paul get me a performing slot at senior citizen pride lmao these are my people#(shoutout to paul going ''jess stop collecting the old homos!'' last time i was in town)#(and when i imitated him and was like ''old gay men are not your pokemon!'' bellini was like ''ok but they may be your audience'')#also one data point i really want to see the variation on is how my one specific joke plays in these different demographics#bc i have a joke that like. it's literally not even about AIDS and doesn't punch down at all#i literally say ''if you're gay and over the age of 50 you could violate the geneva convention and i'd still be like support our troops''#like obviously being like ''you have been through hell so i will let you get away with literal war crimes you deserve ultimate immunity''#BUT. in the line right before the quote i use the phrase ''AIDS generation'' not as a derogatory term but being like.#this horrible thing impacted the entire generation y'know? and bellini and scott and their friends call themselves that it's just the term#but when i said the phrase ''AIDS generation'' in front of my gen z audience i heard gasps and felt like they all hated me#and when i did the same line in front of millennials it wasn't quite as striking but their eyes did widen#like i was suddenly an ''edgy comedian''. but like this is a part of our history and it does inform the story i'm telling#the story i'm telling is comedic but it's grounded in this real world context#and i'm like. @ the audience who was offended: when was the last time any of y'all spoke to a gay man over the age of 50#bc bellini loves that section of the monologue and was offended that people would even take offense to that phrase
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not really the type who likes posting their ocs much but here's a Nim :}
#no tags because idk how to tag oc posts- also this account DO just be for saving my art in case my pc ever breaks.#but he's one of my favourite characters i have rn#and the junk hunters in general honestly their dynamic is my favourite.#two old gay men. One (Viktor) who lingers a little on the past but is happy and content as to where he is in the present#the other (Atlas) still mourning his dead mother and having left his abusive home.#A trans girl (Inky) who grew up in a perfectly normal household but became agoraphobic; before being ripped from her home and forced into#outside world#and Nim. someone who grew up in a trash zone with nothing to eat but garbage and is living her best life in the present.#they're literally blorbos from my brain ESPECIALLY the world they're apart of too because GOD i love it so much#What Nim's holding is called a Liabell; most if not all mosnter hunters have them for mobility.#the liabells dont work without a lullader (small-neon glowing stone looking spiders basically) inside. as it uses their incredibly tough we#to pull#but Nim's a cloven (deerways) so she's already got pretty good agility and uses their's for moreso rangling monsters.#i have SUCH a cool scene that I wanna draw (but doesn't fit my style- so i gotta commission it for sure)#where they're standing atop of an elk-like monster#and he's like- spun webs of the liabell around it's horns and its incredibly firey and its night and#GAHH#Nim's liabell isn't even like- purple- his lullader is- the liabell is clear glass with weathering copper when the lullader isnt in it.#I'm so normal about this world and all the races I've made for it. Because simply being a different race means they might use their#tools differently or not need specific ones#for example: I've got one character in my mind that's a possae (something inhabiting another thing basically) and they're a skeleton#with this massive glowing pulsating mass in it's ribcage and its all cowboy motif. (I'm thinking angel posessing it and handing out#their own retrobution in the West Zone)#and basically they use a Liabell similar to Nim but it's a lasso and they have several of them to help tie up more people.
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One of my favorite things about being a gay sexual deviant is the playfulness around gender and body parts. Like gay men/ drag queens who serve cunt! Lesbians with big dick energy! Genitalia as aura, biological sex as a joke. It’s so much fun.
#yes this is why I go on and on about manspreads and cock & ball humor#part of being masc/butch/whatever at least for me is being petulantly amused by penises and cis men in general#it’s like a perfectly even split between gender envy and adolescent mocking#I’m just having a good time#I love being gay
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The first time I saw a John Singer Sargent figure sketch it was truly a moment of "Oh fuck, someone understands me". Like idk how to describe that moment but it really had an impact
#in general ive found a lot of comfort and almost idk validity in his perspective#not so much because i think our art styles are similar but more so the goal of what is being conveyed???#and honestly i could say the same for so many of my favorite gay artists and illustrators#it makes me more sure that my attraction to men is definitely outside the perspective of heterosexuality if that makes sense?#especially since so many gay/bi men and bisexual women in particular love my work :')
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smthn abt traditional music that makes the men in this town a little slutty...
#elios adventures in italy 2023 and i am having the time of my life babyyyy#we had a la notte della taranta in my dads hometown tonight and those bitches go crazy for a pizzica !!!#this one guy standing in front of me was soooo fit#(also side note but im obsessed w being tall than most men here lmao and im barely 1.6m)#n e way he was cute and shorter than me and had this one dangly earring and silky dark curls#and he went awfffff lmao#he kept swinging his little hips and i wanted to **** *** **** *** **** *** :)#but its sooo funny like suddenly everyones dancing and everyones gay#and its so so fun i just love traditional dances in general like thinking abt my ancestors doing this same dance to the same music for#hundreds of years <33#i love using tumblr as my diary lol like it really was fun but i cant deny i was thinking w my dick the whole night <3
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making myself cry by writing one-shots for my newly minted OCs while working to get that sim dump done in time for a somewhere-in-June launch if EA cooperates. i call that a win
#* mine.#hallasimss#( * Il-jung and Rae-hyun are my gay little men and they have taken over my life now#| stayed up last night to write a little scene after the aftermath of all the sh*t i have planned for them#| and the hand imagery...... all of the hand imagery....... i am biting at my own wrists just so you know#| something something 'pls don't ask me to let go of his hand'. something something 'his hands are very warm sonja. i would not#| ask that of you'. something something the world is healing gay trauma is being worked on slowly but surely the older generation#| understands!!!!!! and they love them!!!!!!!#| let me go sit down before i become too feral bc of them#| also haven't checked TS4 since the update but More Columns In CAS is back up and functioning so ig that is a sign!!!!#| let me just double check to make sure i've backed up my mods and everything before i go in there. it's a f*cking warzone you never know )
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